by Irina Timchenko
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Most of the men who travel to Russia seeking for marriage keep making the same mistakes over and over again... Every time they meet a woman they use the same techniques. They try to buy her love with dinners, gifts, and favors... or... they try to convince her that they're a "nice guy" by being sweet, gentle, and attentive (in order to get love, affection, and sex, of course).
But I continuously hear that «these methods do not work» any longer, and I feel it is time to discuss some ideas of how you can attract a woman at the very first date.
Start with the inner game FIRST. Success with women begins with what's inside of YOU. And the first thing you need to do is lay down a strong mental foundation for success.
Imagine what kind of success you would have with women if you were more self-confident (let us be sincere – each of us experiences lack of confidence when it comes to men/women relationships). What if you had an unforgettable presence that made woman notice YOU over every other guy in the room? What if you had that powerful, masculine charisma that draws women in like a magnet? You can do it.
To produce unforgettable impression on a Russian woman at the very first meeting, do the following:
- try to look energetic, optimistic and self-confident, sometimes even a bit dominating and powerful – Russian women adore these qualities in men;
- lead the conversation, and do not expect the woman to fill the awkward moments of silence;
- find topics which are interesting to her, and try to attract her interest by discusing these topics (by the ay, this can give you really much information about her personality);
- whenever you speak to a woman, smile. Try to be humorous, this is always very encouraging for both participants of the talk;
- be polite and gentle, say compliments and never forget to notice her good sides;
- make sure that you are neatly dressed, and that you look really good in her eyes. Put on something neat, clean and comfortable (you definitely don't want to keep thinking about your tight shoes or hard collar during the talk with her) – someting which you like to wear. Women like men wearing casual, modern-style things in moderate plain colors. Your hairstyle, decent parfum and well-shaved skin matters much, too. Every woman will immediately make a note about how clean your shoes are, and will notice how well you take care of your hands and nails);
- if she looks uncertain, embarrassed or bored with no visible reason, offer her some new activity – to go to a cafe, to take a walk in a park, to play a questions and answers game, or just stop at a flower market and buy her a rose when she does not expect this;
- be open, sincere and casual – let her see that you are honest with her;
- enjoy the whole meeting. Your positive look will transcend to her, and she will surely enjoy it together with you.
All these techniques are equally important for both – for her and for you, to build up your self-confidence. The second and the other meetings in future will be succesful if you follow these rules:
Be confident about yourself. Women love confidence! Don't be shy or conservative, tell them how you will make them happy. Make them think they've never had anyone like you, no doubt about it, no doubt at all. This will have them dying to meet you.
Be sincere. Be sincere and down to earth in all of your communications.
Be realistic. Don't try too hard to promote yourself, it will only get you negative attention. Don't sound desperate!
Play hard to get. Women want what they can't have. Subtly let her see that you have standards, but quickly let her feel like you see her as a someone who meets those standards. Let them know why you think they meet those standards. By listening to what she says about herself, you will see where she feels her strong points are. Use this knowledge and flatter her on these points. If you are the guy who notices her qualities, then you'll be the one she'll flaunt them for!
Know your strenghts. Know your strong points, and subtly make them known. Most personals ads should list your hobbies. This is a great place to show off! Make sure to list things that women like. For instance list bowling, swimming, going to the beach, and working out. As well, avoid things like hockey and football, which women aren't much into. If you choose to include all the "guy things" try using them in moderation, you do not want to scare her away before your even started. Women also like a man who can afford to show her a good time, so if you are in that financial category, be sure to list expensive things like fine dining, boating, sailing, or such elite hobbies.
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Be attentive to her. Do you notice the big and the little things about you partner?
Your partner likes to get noticed once in a while. They like for their actions, attitudes, feelings and aspirations to be noticed and acknowledged. Become a person who notice these things in your partner and give a compliment once in a while. It will make your partner feel special and know how much that you care.
Give thanks and appreciation. Thanking your partner for the things that they do for you will go a long way. We often forget to say thanks and it can leave your partner feeling unappreciated and used. So if you remember to say "thanks" for the little things and the big things what ever it is that your partner does for you it will go a long way, and they are more likely to do more of the same. Do not take for granted that your partner knows that you are thankful for the things that they do for you. Why? Because being thanked feels good. Tell them you appreciate it too.
Make a list of what you admire about your partner. Now share that list with her. You don't have to wait for a special occasion to share this with her. Surprise that special person any time. You will soon see by sharing how much you appreciate them you are also working on other key ingredients that make a healthy relationship. You are being honest, open together and these things are just a few of the things that you need to keep a relationship strong. So go ahead have fun and take the time to learn more about each other as you grow stronger together.
Do something special for her. Knowing what your partner likes and showing them that you know and appreciate them by doing something special goes a long way. Some of the things that she might like are: cards, flowers, a dinner out, a parfum, etc. You may not like or want these same things and that's ok. Do something or give her something she likes. Make her feel special.
Surprise your sweetheart with a night out. Call her up and ask her on a date. Take her out to dinner and a movie.
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